This is true.
Life gets busy and sometimes you don't always get the chance to check up on your loved ones. It's not as if you forget about them; it's just that life overtakes and before you know it, it's been a month since you last communicated with someone you once spoke to every single day.
I was recently feeling down because a good friend of mine wasn't responding to my texts one bit, even when I asked questions. I was beginning to feel as if I was starting to annoy him.
We chatted on Facebook and he said something that completely reassured me.
"You shouldn't need reassurance of our friendship Megan. Not responding to a few texts doesn't wipe away 9 years in the slightest."
I knew that. That's what I always tell my friends when I realize that I haven't been communicating very well. You don't need to be reassurance.
The thing is... sometimes you do. Sometimes people need to hear it. Sometimes it's nice to get a response back, especially when you haven't spoke to someone in a while. It's nice to get a random "I love you".
If you love someone, tell them; tell them as often as you can.
And I couldn't agree with you more on this post...
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